I like Bodog, good freeroll payouts, plenty of fish, and once you turn off the spotlight the software runs reasonably well. They even give you player points for playing in freerolls, which most places don't.
There are lots of things I don't understand about the OP, but the most glaringly obvious anomaly has to be:
Why would you play between ten and fifteen thousand hands a month at a site, if you detested it that vehemently?
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